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This post is about love inside of you and how to unblock love so you can enjoy life.
Of course, did you hear this phrase that “all you need is love,” right? So you don’t need anybody or something to be fulfilled because you are enough.
WHAT BLOCKS THIS FEELING
In reality, the quality to love and express this feeling is inherent in every person. However, where does the power to love comes from?
In reality, the quality to love and express this feeling is inherent in every person. #howtounblocklove #loveagain #love #findyourself Share on XIn the first place, there is a block that prevents showing love, which doesn’t show up this quality in our spiritual nature. So, this block is called indifference. Then, as a result, indifference is manifested by such a quality as powerlessness or lack of faith.
Therefore love itself does not disappear; first of all, faith in it, which turns into indifference, disappears. Also, we feel indifference like “I have no strength anymore, or I can’t do anything.” The sole thing that destroys love is negative emotions. Moreover, it is littered with a huge load of negative emotions.
What is the key to experiencing love again?
The first thing you need to get rid of is indifference. It is better to abandon the very idea that not to love is safer than love. Besides, indifference has such “a positive side” that it is much more convenient not to love. Why? Because someone or something can wear out fewer nerves, and that’s it. Right?😊
It turns out that for us in the world, the most important thing is to have at least one person who believes in us more than we believe in ourselves.
HOW TO UNBLOCK LOVE AND WHERE TO TAKE POWER TO LOVE
Well, this power appears when you take a sheet of paper. To clarify, I am talking about writing a letter to yourself that helps shift your mind in a positive direction. So prepare a beautiful pen and piece of paper or download the workbook above.
1. In this case, you start by writing that
I am helpless… I feel powerless…
Then you write everything that you feel powerless about. In general, this may relate to a situation that has been associated with a person, hobby, or love. For example, love has long sunk into oblivion.
Because impressions remain for a long time, severe and emotional experiences associated with cleanliness, openness leaves deep scars.
Therefore, sometimes it is necessary to take not the current story, in which there is no strength to believe in loved one, but some old situation.
2. When having written why ‘I feel powerless, deprived of strength in something,’ it’s important to write what you feel shame for.
For example, I am ashamed that these relations did not remain the same as before, that I could not find, did not know, did not know. Yet, even having this knowledge, I did it differently, feeling that it was necessary to do so. For the sake of some worldly practicalism, I don’t know why.
I feel shame now…
3. The next step will immediately appear the desire to write what makes you angry. What causes your anger?
I feel angry that…
4. Next, gloom or discouragement go.
Since nothing can be changed, longing, it is very pitiful and sad that this is how it happened in the end. I wanted to be happy, that’s why I was looking for a person who would make me happy. But why did it happen?
I feel discouraged that…
5. Then fear goes.
I am afraid…
Example: I’m afraid that the rest of my life will pass in this gloom…
6. And the last,
I want…
It turns out that when you write everything to the end, it’s complete, and all this rises from your heart, then your true desires come up on the surface.
You can step none of these steps over until you have exhausted the previous one.
If you have not written everything you are ashamed of, it will be tough to get angry.
Examples: In childhood, we really do not decide much. We need protection so much that if we barely lose it, we find ourselves completely powerless. Powerless to reassure mother, powerless because she cries, because of scandal. We were powerless to help someone from our friends. Were powerless to return a beloved dog that died or disappeared. Or when we could not get what we needed. When you could not please someone, came home, told a funny story, no one even smiled. We thought everyone would have fun.
When we made some mistakes, has anyone had such a thing in their life? And when you made a mistake, you could not fix it in any way; there was no way. Understand? When others did not accept you.
IN CONCLUSION
It was unbelievable to me that it works, but I was doing it anyway. So it works even if you do not really believe it. Writing these letters became my habit, which helped me to understand how our emotions work. I started to accept negative emotions and gave them a place. This life is so colorful!
And when you can manage your negative emotions, you can enjoy life. How does it sound?
Negative emotions are okay if you can manage them and learn from them. I like it! You learn the things that you can’t find somewhere in the books; it is your own experience of connection with yourself. If you love yourself, you love others!😍
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